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It is my first time to be bridemaid, everything is new to me.

In HK is mixed up with Chinese and Western style, our wedding is mixed up too, become complicated.

Although I joined the wedding preparation meeting, but still dont understand all the procedure well.

The procedure is:

We have to arrive bride's home at 6:00am.Then, the make up artist will help us setting hair style and having make up. After 2 hr, groom and bestmans will come to bride's home, we will play game. After an hour, groom and bride have to knee down and give tea to 30 guests(their relatives)(bridemaid help to pour and wash cups),the relatives will give her gold bracelets(bridemaid has to keep this for bride). Then, bride should go out to have a walk, that will bring good luck to her(chinese traditional thing).  Then all people go to church, bridemaids become security guards, help to keep guest safe and everything in order.Also, we need to decorate the church. After ceremony, we will go to hotel, preparing for night dinner(hotel has chinese restaruant), chinese style again. We decorate again. And I will be at counter, help guest find their seats, let them sign on guestbooks...Until 11pm will be end.

Our responsibility are making sure that the guests are safe and happy, procedures are well completed.

The first difficulty is the dress, it is so thin, when I was second fitting, just a step, the lining is broken.And also had many other problems. The dress need to be repaired, that make me worried.

And the game, I have to design two boards for that. Even I am bridemaid, get stress. Everytime I met the bride, she said she was so afraid if the things go well.

Therefore, I think, I will not do all the things in my wedding(if I have). At least cut out the night dinner.

Heard a lot that bride and groom will have arguement during preparing wedding, as they have to satisfy their will and their parents'.

Wedding is a happy thing, people should be relax, and enjoyable. If they are so stressful and busy, they will just get tired.

 I couldnt think the wedding day too much, as it is too heavy. Lucky that we have experienced bridemaid, one of them did that 11 times.(I wonder if she likes wedding ceremony?)

Many girls may have their dream wedding. I dont, dont think this is a must task in my life, maybe that will not happen, so why think it too much.

Finally, I think I like to join the wedding as this is a new thing, glad that in this year has special thing and will have impressed memory for sure.